1. You transitioned from being a Chartered Accountant and Lawyer to a spiritual educator and healer. What inspired this shift?
My journey from being a Chartered Accountant and a Lawyer to a spiritual educator and healer wasn’t something I planned—it was life’s way of pushing me toward my true calling.
Honestly, I was in a tough marriage for almost 11 years and experienced a challenging phase of motherhood for nearly 7 years. These struggles made me question everything—relationships, love, and the deeper meaning of life. Why do some relationships feel effortless while others are filled with conflict? Why do certain patterns keep repeating despite our best efforts?
At the same time, I saw a few very close relatives suffering from mental illness, and it shook me. I wanted to understand human behavior, emotions, and the unseen forces shaping our lives. That’s when my deep research began—psychology, healing, and eventually, numerology.
Numerology helped me decode answers I had been searching for. It showed me that relationships are not just about emotions; they are energy dynamics playing out based on our life paths. When I started applying this knowledge, I saw real transformation—not just in my life but in the lives of people around me. That’s when I knew I had to make this wisdom accessible to everyone.
2. How did you first discover numerology, and what drew you to explore it deeply?
I first discovered numerology during a phase in my life when I was desperately searching for answers, a few years ago. I had been through an emotionally challenging marriage for 11 years and faced a difficult journey of motherhood for nearly 7 years. On top of that, witnessing close relatives struggle with mental illness made me question everything—why people suffer, why certain relationship patterns repeat, and whether there was a deeper design behind life’s challenges.
Initially, my search led me to psychology, spirituality, and healing modalities, but nothing quite explained the recurring patterns in my life and relationships the way numerology did. When I first came across numerology, it felt like a missing puzzle piece. It wasn’t just about numbers; it was a map that revealed personality traits, emotional patterns, and the energetic dynamics between people.
The more I explored, the more everything started making sense—why some relationships felt effortless while others were full of conflict, why people struggled with certain challenges repeatedly, and how our birth numbers influence our soul’s journey. Numerology gave me clarity, and once I started applying it to real-life situations, I saw undeniable results.
That’s when I knew I had to go deeper. I spent years studying, analyzing, and testing numerology in different aspects of life—especially relationships.
3. What makes numerology such a powerful tool for self-discovery and relationship understanding?
Numerology is a powerful tool for self-discovery and relationship understanding because it reveals the deeper patterns that shape our personalities, behaviors, and life paths. Unlike general personality tests or psychological theories, numerology taps into the energetic blueprint we are born with—our strengths, challenges, emotional needs, and even the karmic lessons we are here to learn.
In relationships, most people struggle because they don’t understand why they or their partner react in certain ways. They assume conflicts arise from circumstances, but numerology shows that our life path numbers influence our approach to love, communication, and emotional needs. It helps answer critical questions like:
- Why do I keep attracting similar types of partners?
- Why do some relationships feel instantly harmonious while others feel draining?
- What are the strengths and challenges in my current relationship?
- How can I improve communication and emotional connection with my partner?
When we understand our numbers and those of our partner, we stop taking things personally and start seeing the bigger picture.
4. Can you share an example of how numerology helped you or someone you know transform their life?
Absolutely! Numerology was a game-changer in my life, especially in my marriage and other relationships. Before discovering it, I was struggling—feeling unheard, misunderstood, and constantly questioning why things weren’t working despite my best efforts. My marriage, which had been difficult for 11 years, felt like an endless cycle of miscommunication and emotional disconnect. My relationship with my 7-year-old also had its share of struggles, leaving me overwhelmed and exhausted.
Then, I discovered numerology, and it was almost like an epiphany—everything suddenly made sense! I realized that my husband and I were operating from completely different life path energies, and our conflicts weren’t just random; they were deeply rooted in our core numbers. We had different ways of expressing love, handling emotions, and dealing with challenges. Instead of seeing his actions as personal attacks, I began to understand the natural tendencies of his number. This shift in perspective helped me communicate better, set healthier expectations, and most importantly, heal my own emotional wounds that were unconsciously affecting the relationship.
The most beautiful transformation happened in my relationship with my child. As a mother, I was unknowingly expecting my child to think and behave like me, but numerology showed me that we had completely different emotional needs. Once I started parenting based on his unique energy, our bond strengthened, and I could see my child thrive in a way I had never seen before. This personal transformation inspired me to dive deeper into numerology and healing.
Today, I see these shifts happening in people’s lives every day—through my 1:1 healing sessions, my books, and my videos.
5. What was the most challenging part of writing Decode ‘You’ and ‘Your Relationships’ through Numerology?
The most challenging part of writing Decode ‘You’ and ‘Your Relationships’ through Numerology was simplifying complex concepts without losing their depth. Numerology is a vast and intricate subject, and while it provides profound insights, it can also feel overwhelming for someone new to it. My goal was to make this wisdom accessible to everyone, regardless of their background.
One of the biggest challenges was explaining life path compatibility in a way that wasn’t rigid or deterministic. Many people assume that if their numbers aren’t “compatible,” their relationship is doomed, but that’s not how numerology works. Relationships are dynamic, and numbers simply reveal strengths, challenges, and areas of growth. Striking the right balance between practical guidance and spiritual wisdom took a lot of refining.
Lastly, I wanted to ensure that this book wasn’t just about theory but also about transformation. That’s why I included practical exercises and real-life case studies so readers could apply numerology to their own relationships and see immediate results.
6. Were there any surprising insights or revelations you discovered while writing this book?
Yes, there were quite a few surprising insights and revelations while writing Decode ‘You’ and ‘Your Relationships’ through Numerology. Even though I had been practicing numerology for years, diving deep into life path compatibility for this book gave me an even greater appreciation for how intricately numbers shape our relationships.
One of the biggest revelations was how certain patterns repeat across relationships, not just romantic ones but also in friendships, family dynamics, and even professional connections. I realized that people often attract partners or situations that reflect their unresolved inner conflicts. For example, someone with a Life Path 6 (nurturer) may keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners because they are unconsciously seeking validation through caregiving. This deeper layer of understanding made me see numerology as not just a predictive tool but a mirror for self-growth.
Another surprising insight was how some “incompatible” life path numbers actually have the potential for the most transformational relationships. Society conditions us to think that relationships should be easy, but my research and real-life case studies showed that some of the most fulfilling and deep connections come from numbers that challenge each other.
One of the most personal revelations was how numerology had already shaped my life in ways I hadn’t fully realized. As I wrote about different life path dynamics, I saw my own past experiences in a new light. My struggles in relationships weren’t just personal failings—they were lessons my soul had chosen for growth. That understanding alone was incredibly healing.
7. Do you plan to write more books? If so, what topics might you explore next?
Yes, absolutely! I am currently working on more books about numerology, diving deeper into different aspects of life beyond just relationships. Numerology is such a vast and profound subject that its wisdom can be applied to every area of life—career, health, past life patterns, soul purpose, and overall life path evolution.
One of my upcoming books will focus on Aligning career with personality through numerology, helping people understand how their life path number influences their professional choices, strengths, and challenges. Many people struggle with career dissatisfaction because they are working against their natural energies instead of aligning with their true purpose. This book will guide readers in choosing the right career path based on their numbers and overcoming obstacles that may be blocking their success.
Another book will explore physical and mental health in numerology, revealing how certain numbers have tendencies toward specific health issues—both physical and emotional.
I am also deeply fascinated by past life influences and karmic lessons in numerology. Our numbers not only reflect our current life’s purpose but also carry imprints from our past lives. This book will explore how unresolved karmic patterns influence relationships, career choices, fears, and even unexplained challenges in life.Most importantly, I am also writing books that provides a deep, detailed exploration of each life path number, covering their soul journey, strengths, weaknesses, spiritual purpose, and practical ways to align with their highest potential. This will serve as a comprehensive guide for anyone looking to deeply understand themselves and the lessons they are meant to learn in this lifetime.
8. How do you see the role of ancient sciences like numerology evolving in the modern world?
I believe ancient sciences like numerology are experiencing a powerful resurgence in the modern world, and their relevance is only growing. In a time when people are overwhelmed with information, stressed by fast-paced lifestyles, and seeking deeper meaning beyond material success, numerology offers a structured yet intuitive approach to self-awareness and life guidance.
One of the biggest reasons for this shift is that modern science is slowly catching up with ancient wisdom. Quantum physics, for example, acknowledges that everything in the universe operates on vibrations and frequencies—something numerology has been teaching for centuries. Numbers are not just mathematical symbols; they carry energetic blueprints that influence human behavior, relationships, and life paths. As more people embrace holistic healing, they are beginning to see numerology as a practical tool for personal transformation, decision-making, and emotional healing.
In the coming years, I see numerology becoming an essential part of personal development, career planning, mental health awareness, and even business decision-making. Many successful entrepreneurs and leaders are already using numerology to align with the right energies for their brands, partnerships, and financial growth. I also believe it will play a greater role in psychology and therapy, helping individuals and couples understand their core patterns and relationship dynamics.
